Here is my coming out ...

No, I am not a gay and I am not a lesbian...

1) I am a family man with three successful young adults. ... Who can be prouder than that at the age of 50?
2) I am a successful businessman with 17 training and consulting companies in 17 countries in Central-Eastern Europe and the Middle East - Who can be prouder than that?
3) I am personally a well looked after consultant in this region to support organizations to achieve results - and I am proud of this.
4) I have joined Numista exactly on 4-May-2012, which has been 4 years ago. I have joined with the ambition that Numista can be a platform that Hungarian corpus can be renewed and I can support one of my charity clients, a museum of numismatics to establish correct and concise catalogueing of early Hungarian coins. - this illusion on perfection faded away quickly.
5) I am on facebook, more importantly on LinkedIn and on various professional consulting sites, where I have to behave politically correctly, and I have joined Numista with a very clear behaviour pattern, I have committed myself to: I will be not politically correct just for the sake of it, not polite just for hiding facts, not conformist just to please leaders, and I will use no communication tricks to politically play a game. - I am still to that.

6) As a result, you might find me aggressive, arrogant or else, and that is right.

I would like to refer to some current and earlier posts here and there:

I find Xavier, his current an old behaviours: an utterly disgusting behaviour, I am not calling him an utterly disgusting person, because I believe it is a behaviour he might change:

1) Not responding to people who want to support HIS own site is simply DISRESPECTFUL. Ignorance of those guys who work for his own wealth shamefully and utterly scandalous.
2) Not appreciating people who have contributed hundreds and thousands of coin pages is simply selfish and selfish and selfish. "I did it all" attitude kills this website.
3) Not listening to any suggestions and no actions taken is again disrespectful and shows ignorance to people.
4) Providing no support, i.e. no support for freshly appointed new team members (or whatever they are called) like Jarcek and more ... means that he does not give a shit for his own venture.

I find Xavier, his current an old behaviours: an utterly disgusting behaviour,

Utterly Disgusting is the word composition I have been thinking for a while but I trust this is the right term for Xavier.

Cheers,
Imre

Strongly disagree.

Quote: "oggy"​Strongly disagree.

​... and why, Sir?

Now that's out of the way can we compliment Jarcek instead for effectively leading the people in what is a fairly frustrating time for all.

Quote: "imreh"​

Quote: "oggy"​Strongly disagree.

​​... and why, Sir?

​one of those things which pisses me off is comments undefined like this! - simple bowing but no opinion!
Can you elaborate?
What exactly - as someone who has violated the ground rules of having only one account - is not in your agreement?
If you have such a thing: stay tall and state it, do not just mingle with the crowd in an asskissing mode.

I cant disagree with your opinion Imreh, however, I do find it hilarious that someone who has only been here 5 minutes feels the need to disagree

I have to disagree also. Yes, things are sometimes frustrating but to use such strong words I believe is not accurate. Like all of us, Xavier has a personal life with personal commitments. This is not his full time job. Maybe if he starts charging a monthly fee he can do this full time and even hire some additional developers, but I am pretty sure nobody will be happy with that either.
This website is free, which have allowed young and old, rich and poor to join. I for one am grateful for this site.

Quote: "Spookie"​I have to disagree also. Yes, things are sometimes frustrating but to use such strong words I believe is not accurate. Like all of us, Xavier has a personal life with personal commitments. This is not his full time job. Maybe if he starts charging a monthly fee he can do this full time and even hire some additional developers, but I am pretty sure nobody will be happy with that either.
​This website is free, which have allowed young and old, rich and poor to join. I for one am grateful for this site.

​I respect your views.
If you start a venture you need to nurture it, though.

Xavier is mostly ignorant and disrespectful to his contributors, I stand my views on this. He thinks of you and other contributors as "necessary opponents, rebellious peasants" rather than grateful contributors.
The entire set-up, here, is about his greatness though he himself did not do much for the size of the catalog where we are now. There has been an attempt to show contributions which was carefully deleted after like 5 days as it has become obvious that the great leader did not do too much for his own website.

Spookie, I am not using STRONG words here. I am utterly polite compared to words this guy would deserve in a public hearing on misusing human resources for no mutual benefit in any European Court.

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Quote: "oggy"​Strongly disagree.

​​​... and why, Sir?

​​one of those things which pisses me off is comments undefined like this! - simple bowing but no opinion!
​Can you elaborate?
​What exactly - as someone who has violated the ground rules of having only one account - is not in your agreement?
​If you have such a thing: stay tall and state it, do not just mingle with the crowd in an asskissing mode.

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I was out.

But people should not be a prisoner of their own success. Yes, the site is run far from optimally and it's frustrating, but at the end of the day all Xavier does is provide a facility. People who don't like it are free not to use it. The odd snafu aside, the core functionality works relatively stably, the servers work, and the community is there.

Could he do more with it? Sure. Should he be forced to just because the site is successful? Definitely not.

Not much more to say really. He provides a facility, he doesn't have a responsibility. Not about arselicking, I simply don't care. If the site ceases to provide me joy and functionality, I'll go elsewhere as is my right. If he puts so little time to it that it goes down the drain, that's his choice. Not sure how you making assumptions about what he's thinking is helpful either.

Each member and team member has that choice.

As for linkedin being professional.... I've found it nothing but overenthusiastic recruiters wanting to spam.

You won't get his site imreh, you won't get it...get over it...
Stop trying to manipulate...

Quote: "Ninebobnote"​I cant disagree with your opinion Imreh, however, I do find it hilarious that someone who has only been here 5 minutes feels the need to disagree
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Yea, people having their own opinion in the Stepford society of today is hilarious!

Very manly and original to mock it.

Quote: "oggy"​
​Not much more to say really. He provides a facility, he doesn't have a responsibility.

​There are responsibilities you have, if you engage people in social media contributions. That is what I have been talking about. He lives in France so that bears also legal consequences.
I will be the last person to draw attention to that legally, but ethically I still find it disgusting!

Well you know what they say...if you don't like it you can always go away. In fact didn't you say a year or two ago that you wouldn't come back to this site because you were going to do everything through facebook.

Quote: "neilithic"​Well you know what they say...if you don't like it you can always go away. In fact didn't you say a year or two ago that you wouldn't come back to this site because you were going to do everything through facebook.
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​almost correct, Neil. I said I would refrain from frequent forum posting, which I have kept. I am much less active these days as you might observe, but still I do believe that people shall be acknowledged, contributors welcomed, people's individual collection habits respected, so I wonder what is the worry?

Ya, hoopsie, my dear Neil, after this:

Catalogue contributions1520 coins added, 4503 years added, 1559 coins edited, 1543 years edited

I am not leaving easy. I did my job and I request, well ... a bit of a respect... at least an answer from the great leader in about 76 days

Quote: "imreh"​Ya, hoopsie, my dear Neil, after this:
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​Catalogue contributions1520 coins added, 4503 years added, 1559 coins edited, 1543 years edited
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​I am not leaving easy. I did my job and I request, well ... a bit of a respect... at least an answer from the great leader in about 76 days

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Now you just sound like an attention whore with an entitlement complex.

Fair enough, make a point, be honest and that you're not happy etc, but don't throw your toys out the cot.

You volunteered for the good of the community [one would assume], not to get free sexual favours from Xavier.

Quote: "oggy"​

Quote: "imreh"​Ya, hoopsie, my dear Neil, after this:
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​​Catalogue contributions1520 coins added, 4503 years added, 1559 coins edited, 1543 years edited
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​​I am not leaving easy. I did my job and I request, well ... a bit of a respect... at least an answer from the great leader in about 76 days

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​Now you just sound like an attention whore with an entitlement complex.
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​Fair enough, make a point, be honest and that you're not happy etc, but don't throw your toys out the cot.
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​You volunteered for the good of the community [one would assume], not to get free sexual favours from Xavier.

​a whore?
In what business are you which gives you the privilige to run multiple Numista accounts? - jeopardizing all of us?
It is a pity that you do not have the mental capacity to understand some messages.

Oh guys, you are taking this really far...

Why we cannot just Keep calm and Go on?

Quote: "Jarcek"​Oh guys, you are taking this really far...
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​Why we cannot just Keep calm and Go on?

​Good job, Jarcek,

but sometimes you need to let the dirt go out ...

We all need to find people useful to talk to ....

Quote: "imreh"​Ya, hoopsie, my dear Neil, after this:
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​Catalogue contributions1520 coins added, 4503 years added, 1559 coins edited, 1543 years edited
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​I am not leaving easy. I did my job and I request, well ... a bit of a respect... at least an answer from the great leader in about 76 days

​Sorry, but anyone who can leave the site in a hissy-fit because it doesn't allow you to say whatever you like, set up a facebook group where people can say what they want without being restrained, then come back on to the site to demand that someone should be banned from Numista for something they said in you "free speech" facebook group, gets my contempt, not respect.

Quote: "imreh"​

Quote: "oggy"​
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Quote: "imreh"​Ya, hoopsie, my dear Neil, after this:
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​​​Catalogue contributions1520 coins added, 4503 years added, 1559 coins edited, 1543 years edited
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​​​I am not leaving easy. I did my job and I request, well ... a bit of a respect... at least an answer from the great leader in about 76 days

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​​Now you just sound like an attention whore with an entitlement complex.
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​​Fair enough, make a point, be honest and that you're not happy etc, but don't throw your toys out the cot.
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​​You volunteered for the good of the community [one would assume], not to get free sexual favours from Xavier.

​​a whore?
​In what business are you which gives you the privilige to run multiple Numista accounts? - jeopardizing all of us?
​It is a pity that you do not have the mental capacity to understand some messages.
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QED.

Quote: "neilithic"​

Quote: "imreh"​Ya, hoopsie, my dear Neil, after this:
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​​Catalogue contributions1520 coins added, 4503 years added, 1559 coins edited, 1543 years edited
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​​I am not leaving easy. I did my job and I request, well ... a bit of a respect... at least an answer from the great leader in about 76 days

​​Sorry, but anyone who can leave the site in a hissy-fit because it doesn't allow you to say whatever you like, set up a facebook group where people can say what they want without being restrained, then come back on to the site to demand that someone should be banned from Numista for something they said in you "free speech" facebook group, gets my contempt, not respect.

​i simply do not understand this. what are you saying?

You know very well what I'm talking about

https://en.numista.com/forum/topic43585.html

This is about the only time I have sided with the Hamster. You demanded that he be banned from Numista for creating fake facebook profile and disrupting your facebook group. I am the first one that calls for Hamster to pay for the mayhem he creates on this site, but to call for a ban for something they did somewhere else and then throwing your toys out of the cot when he actually did receive a ban from the forums but it wasn't as strict as you were hoping is just ridiculous. I have never taken you seriously since that.

Quote: "neilithic"​You know very well what I'm talking about
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​https://en.numista.com/forum/topic43585.html
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​This is about the only time I have sided with the Hamster. You demanded that he be banned from Numista for creating fake facebook profile and disrupting your facebook group. I am the first one that calls for Hamster to pay for the mayhem he creates on this site, but to call for a ban for something they did somewhere else and then throwing your toys out of the cot when he actually did receive a ban from the forums but it wasn't as strict as you were hoping is just ridiculous. I have never taken you seriously since that.

​yes. what is wrong? - anyone with a fake identity to attack Numista or facebook profile of friendly users shall be eliminated. are you still in support of the fake profile user?

plus, this is about your and kommodore's private problems: Can we get back to the core question, please?

If I dressed up as somebody else, and insulted Neilithic whilst we both holidayed in Australia, would it be right for me to be banned from NZ and Numista?

I have loads of good cricketing insults.

No, I don't want people to be punished for something they did somewhere else. I'm a member of a tennis club and a badminton club. If I did something wrong in my badminton club I wouldn't expect my tennis club to turn around and ban me for the same incident.

The people he was attacking on facebook may have been Numista members too...but he did it on facebook, not here and it's petulant to demand that he be disciplined on this site as well as facebook. It's being punished twice for the same crime. Anyway, I've made my point, obviously like always you just want to argue, so I'll ignore the thread now.

Quote: "oggy"​If I dressed up as somebody else, and insulted Neilithic whilst we both holidayed in Australia, would it be right for me to be banned from NZ and Numista?
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​I have loads of good cricketing insults.

​I'll bet a few about sheep too, that's the go-to insult about New Zealanders.

okay, you can go and insult, but my feelings remain as above...

lovely that I am starting a revulutionary discussion for Xavier, while the person I am talking to has two illegal profiles.
Corruptions on a grand scale.

VOMMIT!

You guys from New Zealand and else

obviously....

Thank you Imreh for your feedback and suggestions.
Now I prefer to close the topic as it starts turning bad.